My Sleep Philosophy
I am a Sleep Sense™ Certified Baby Sleep Consultant based in Singapore, trained directly under the program founder, Dana Obleman.
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The Sleep Sense™ method was created out of the belief that healthy sleep habits make for healthy children. A well-rested child is curious, energetic, happy, playful, and eager to learn.
This method places emphasis on accommodating different parenting styles and lifestyles, ensuring that you, as a parent, are comfortable with the new sleep plan in order for it to work for your child.
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How long will my baby cry before he falls asleep?
Won’t my baby resent me if I don’t go to him immediately when he cries?
Won’t he be scarred forever?
Will crying give him gas?
So many questions about crying!
And I understand where all these are coming from, especially if you are considering to hire a sleep consultant. I personally can’t stand babies’ cries. I remember when my husband and I finally decided that we’d had enough of the sleepless nights, and started sleep training Alexander. I was worried too (I’m a worrier).
The one thing that is critical for parents to remember is that crying isn’t going to cause any serious damage to your child. Children cry .A lot. They cry for any reason. Infants and toddlers only have a couple of ways to communicate with us. Crying happens to be the first and their favourite way. Many children will cry their lungs out if we take something away from them! But if they’re playing with something dangerous, you have no choice but to take it away. You’ve got to act in their best interest, even if it results in tears.
It’s the same when it comes to good sleep habits. As parents, we have to act in their best interest and do the hard things. While I can’t promise that your child will take to sleep training like a fish to water, I can promise you that I will never ask you to leave your child crying alone if you don’t want to.